If you and your partner are just starting to discover anal sex, then we’d recommend not rushing to make a decision. Equally, some men have a strong preference one way or the other. Many gay men enjoy both and will often swap roles. physiologically there’s nothing forcing you either way. The great thing about gay sex is both of you can do either, you have the freedom to work out which you enjoy, to experiment with both, to swap roles.
When engaging in anal sex, one of you will be giving (also known as ‘top’ or ‘topping’) while the other will be receiving (‘bottom’ or ‘bottoming’). This beginner’s guide to anal sex has been created specifically for gay men and will hopefully help you and your partner enjoy a whole new kind of gay sex. If you’ve never done it before, or have had some unsuccessful or not very enjoyable experiences in the past, don’t worry – we’re here to help. For gay men ‘going all the way’ can only mean one thing – anal sex!
